Extreme end of the spectrum

"Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that." -- Martin Luther King, Jr.

So, so you think you can tell
Heaven from hell,
blue skies from pain?
Can you tell a green field from a cold steel rail?
A smile from a veil?
Do you think you can tell?”.. Roger Waters

When we let go of our need to control we are free to receive others just as they are.

Learn to love, we have all got to learn to love something. Sounds sentimental as hell but I really believe it is. -Andrew Wyeth